85. Incompatible Personality
What is Personality?
Personality is defined as the totality of character attributes and behavioral traits of a person. Personality Analysis is a methodology for categorizing the character and behavior of a person.
It is very interesting to know that when two persons with opposite personality traits stay together, work together for a period of time. Relations will go sour. The relation can be friends’ relation, husband and wife relation, or business associates.
What are potential areas or hot spots which spark the conflict?
I can name a few reasons:
- Character differences
- Upbringing differences
- Personal habit differences
- Lacking common goals
- Too judgemental
- Passing unfair comment on others
What can we do about it to sort out those differences?
This is a very challenging situation. Be more accommodating to each other. When conflicts become severe, normally after discussion, quiet period, reconciliation and counseling, the logical solution is to stay apart.
“Men's natures are alike; it is their habits that separate them”
Confucius quotes (China's most famous teacher, philosopher, and political theorist, 551-479 BC)
